Increasing Traffic, Readers and Loyalty

by brentriggs on August 3, 2009

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One of the most common questions I get is “how do I get more readers, more visits, and grow loyalty to my blog?”

There are many ways and I could write a book about it. Maybe I will. But for now, I want to give you six things that EVERY blogger can do right now to build traffic and loyalty.

First, a little lesson about blogging. There are gagillions of blogs. Content and entertainment is absolutely in jaw dropping abundance. Learn this rule: with every “abundance” a “scarcity” is created. What’s the scarcity created in blogging?

Attention.

More specifically, people have a finite amount of time so you are competing with other blogger for the attention of readers which is manifested by them investing their time with you. Multiple and continued grants of attention over time are what we call loyalty.

People value their time and are more willing to give you their attention in exchange for what? C’mon… what’s that answer?
YOUR attention. When you invest YOUR time and attention in them, they feel valued and your value increases with them. It sends the message that you know their time is just as valuable as yours.

“Yeah, but I already give them my time by writing content on my blog…” So what. A googlegillion other bloggers do the same. So giving your time to create content is no longer a difference maker. It’s a mandatory ingredient, but not a difference maker among a group who is all doing the same.

My main point today is this: it helps you build traffic and loyalty if you invest the time and effort to RECIPROCATE ATTENTION. Want proof?

How do you feel when you leave a comment on a blog and you actually get a reply from the author? Do you enjoy having another blogger mention you on their blog? Do you like opportunities to leave your link or information on someone else’s blog? Of course. They are reciprocating your attention. They value you.

Okay, you get the point, so here’s some tips for reciprocating attention to build traffic and loyalty:

Comment Replies
As often as you can, reply to comments either with a meaningful response or a simple “hey thanks for leaving a comment, I appreciate it”.

There’s an art to this because if you simply copy and paste the same thing on every reply, then it becomes insincere and people pick up on that with light speed. The trick? Be genuine. Be friendly. Be a real person, not a marketer or a flatterer.

You can’t reply to every comment, especially if you get hundreds of them, or perhaps they aren’t really the type you reply to anyway. However, take every opportunity you can to sincerely reply to your readers. Comments are your readers “speaking to you”… don’t ignore your friends when they talk to you.

Answering emails
Answer every single email you get from your readers. If they can take time to write you and show you they value YOUR attention, you owe it to them to reciprocate. Failing to do so will leave the door wide open for someone who DOES value them… and steal their loyalty from you.

Of course you get some emails from people you do NOT want to reply to, that’s true. For the most part though, answer every email from every loyal reader.

Mentioning others
Mention readers in your blog posts. Mention their blogs. Mention their achievements. Mention their needs. Mention their families. A personal mention of others shows that you care, and shows that you don’t think you are the center of the universe. There are plenty of bloggers out there who achieve a level of success, start believing their own press, and think the whole blog world exists to worship at the feet of their URL. Never forget that there is a seemingly infinite number of blogs competing for the same finite amount of attention and loyalty.

Readers and loyalty are excruciatingly hard to gain, and can be lost with a wisp of haughtiness.

Linking to others

Links are both the glue and the power of the blog world. When you mention your blog friends, link to them. Linking to others very often leads to motivating them to link back to you. Many bloggers become obsessed with GETTING links to their blog, but are stingy and hesitant to return the favor. Don’t let that be you….

Collaborating on content

Ask readers for ideas. Ask them for suggestions. Ask them for their input on your blog and content. Involve them in what you do. Utilize their creativity, energy and goodwill. People who feel involved, feel a sense of community. “Community” goes a LONG way towards building loyalty.

MckLinky lists that benefit others
Okay, so this is a little self serving, but MckLinky is a great way to do many of these things. Creating lists that benefits your readers accomplishes many of the ways we’ve already talked about. I have a long list of new tools in development that are focused around the principles we’ve discussed today. I look forward to providing them to you.

RECIPROCATE ATTENTION… a great way to build traffic and loyalty for your blog.

Actually, on second thought, ignore everything I just said. That will be one less blogger I have to compete with…

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{ 31 comments… read them below or add one }

1 John Lynn May 27, 2010 at 10:18 am

Very interesting and informative. I’ve subscribed to you as I’m new to blogging and I like your approach to things. I nearly missed you as your comment was caught by ekismet. Thanks for visiting my site, it can be lonely out there, especially right at the start. Keep up the good work. John

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2 Sharoni January 30, 2010 at 5:15 pm

Well, this was a great help! Thank you so much for your site and all the wonderful explanations and definitions….I am such a novice at blogging, but I really love it. I just need to develop some skills, and wouldn’t mind some passersby to stop in and chat awhile!
I would love to figure out how to do that Mclinky stuff….and connect with some blogs I have just recently been exposed to.
Thanks again! You may be a life-saver!
Sharoni

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3 Stephanie January 18, 2010 at 7:41 am

I’ve been bloggng for about a year and a half and am JUST NOW realizing everything you just so eloquently stated. It’s all so true. PLUS I Love participating in MckLinky! I’m hosting my first this week =) Thanks for the positive info – I’ll put it to good use!

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4 Nicole January 12, 2010 at 8:34 am

This by far the best advice I’ve found for improving both my blog and my blogging skills! I’m looking forward to reading through your past posts and I’ve subscribed so I can receive all your new ones. Thank you!!

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5 Peggy - The Wired Angel January 5, 2010 at 2:50 am

I’m a brand-spanking-new follower as of minutes ago. I think this advice is so fitting as a blogger. I find when I take the time to visit others it’s reciprocated and I love reading something genuine.

I’m really going to love following your blogs Brent. Thanks so much for sharing such great advice.
Happy New Year,
Peggy

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6 H is for Handmade December 10, 2009 at 9:45 am

Brent-
Thank you for the advise! My blog is fairly new so it is refreshing to learn these simple steps to getting my blog more established and get more readers! I am finding that with blogging, you need to give in order to receive! Give comments and positive feedback on you favorite blogs and the same will happen to you!

P.S. Thank you again for the nice write up in Serious Life Magazine! What an honor!

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7 H is for Handmade December 10, 2009 at 9:38 am

Thank you for all the advise! I am fairly new to the blogging world as well so it was refreshing to learn these simple steps to help me establish my craft blog!

P.S. Thank you again for the great write up in Serious Life Magazine! What an honor!

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8 Mess Buster November 22, 2009 at 12:10 pm

Awesome list :) Something else to consider too, is that as a blog gets more established (i.e. more and more posts), there is more content for search engines to find. I’ve noticed that with some of my older blogs – they show up on Google searches much more easily than my newer ones.

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9 Richard November 22, 2009 at 8:38 am

Thanks Brent for great insight and knowledge. I love reading your stuff, whether on family or business subjects. I have just started a blog again for the fifth or sixth time, but this time I’m doing it for God so I want to do it right. Your post and information will drive me right I fell. God Bless you friend.

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10 Mrs T August 31, 2009 at 7:21 pm

thanks for this information! I love reading others blogs but stop making comments when I didn’t know if it was even being read…or worse yet comment see the ‘wait to moderate’ and come back and it is never posted.

I can’t wait to start using the linky and seeing blogs were people care that someone is reading!

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11 mannoy August 24, 2009 at 7:34 am

hi. thanks for this tip.

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12 brentriggs August 24, 2009 at 7:51 am

Absolutely… feel free to use it however you please… you have my blessing… thank you for reading it… BR

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13 brentriggs August 24, 2009 at 7:52 am

You are VERY welcome…

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14 brentriggs August 20, 2009 at 9:33 pm

I can only answer for me, but if it helps you decide, here goes: I share what is on my heart regardless of what people think… but, I don't share things that are truly TOO intimate, private to our family only (and SHOULD be private)… I try not to complain or whine on my blog even though I feel like it sometimes… and even though I share the blues, the discouragement and difficulties once in a while, my primary goal is to share things that are uplifting… not just fluffy “positive thinking” nonsense, but genuinely uplifting, edifying and spiritually nourishing content. Sometimes fun and light hearted (we all need that), sometimes serious, sometimes sad, sometimes personal. Whatever I feel like sharing as long as I know God is not saying “no” to it.

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15 Nickimum August 19, 2009 at 3:52 pm

Thanks Brett, I am pretty new in the Blog world, my friends tell me I have alot to share as we are fostercarers, adoptive parents and parents of SN kids…….but I see us as just every day folks, are people really interested in everyday folks ?? Is there stuff that you shouldn't share on your blogs, can you share to much doom and gloom, can you share to much mundan everyday stuff???
I often go to write a blog post and think……hmmm with this really interest people, should I be prejudging my blog readers like that……..I am finding that I am getting all caught up in only sharing important stuff (in my view)………Is it wrong to presume people will find our crazy routine and everyday life as boring as I do sometimes LOL……..
Anyway I love this series its really helped me and I am suggesting it to friends,
Hugs Nicki

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16 Julia @ Hooked on Houses August 5, 2009 at 11:34 am

Very well said! I hadn't thought about it this way, but you're right. There are so many sites competing for our attention. I tend to return again and again to those bloggers I feel like I have some sort of relationship with.

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17 icefairy August 4, 2009 at 9:06 pm

Thank you for the great post, Brent! I still remember how warm I felt when a blogger replied to my comment in an email. She now has over 1600 followers and over 1100 subscribers. I have no problem replying to my reader's emails since there aren't many of them. I used to reciprocate blog following when I had a handful of followers. Now I find it hard to do. I do read every single comment but I'm inclined to reply in a comment on the post rather than by email. All in all, it takes a considerable amount of time to build a great blog.

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18 Evelyn Mayfield August 4, 2009 at 12:41 pm

Great ideas. I already learned a few the hard way, but seeing them here reinforces what I learned. As for the new ideas I just rec'd from you, thank you. I am so glad I found MckKlinky and its entire community. I will begin co-linking ASAP.
http://prayersncrafts.blogspot.com
http://www.evelynmayfield.etsy.com

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19 Jenjie August 4, 2009 at 12:02 pm

I have just begin to follow you, I am really enjoying blogging and I love the great advice that you have given me so far.

Thanks so much.

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20 Carrie August 4, 2009 at 10:22 am

Where was this post when I first started blogging last Christmas?? Lol. Jk. Great tips. :)

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21 Peggy August 4, 2009 at 9:42 am

ooooo…competition! Now your true colors are flaring! (lol) not really…

What a great post with many insights & great information! I know you know I needed this & I hope other MckLinky Readers show their appreciation. I'm waiting now for your book!

If I get up the courage to blog about this, can I link to this?

I do take the time with my commenters & reciprocate, never leaving insincere or multiple copy statements but ones that show I've read their content & want to encourage them in what they have shared. Anyways, I appreciate this feedback to a comment I left & this answered one heart break about blogging.

Thanks Brent! You are indeed a TRUE Christian & a great blogger.(minus that competitive edge..)
(maybe that's a 'guy thing'…sorry, I'm kidding but couldn't resist!)

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22 Genny August 4, 2009 at 9:41 am

Great post, Brent. I've been using your MckLinky list for my Mom-Mondays and it's been great.

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23 Brandi August 4, 2009 at 9:35 am

Thanks for the good ideas! I'm glad that after reading this, I've found that I haven't been a terrible blogger! :)
I would love to know how to add a link to the comment form. I have seen that on some other's blogs, but I'm not sure how to do it. Maybe it's because I'm on Blogger? Hmm.

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24 JanMary August 4, 2009 at 9:22 am

Very useful post.

I still remember the thrill when a blogger first replied to one of my first ever comments on a blog.

I try wherever possible to reply and visit their blog too.

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25 Tootsie August 4, 2009 at 9:19 am

this was a great help….I do all of these things all the time! glad to know I am on the right track!

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26 Personalized Sketches and Sentiments August 4, 2009 at 9:07 am

Thanks for some more great insight! I really truly love to read all the new posts from the blogs I follow! But whew! when I happen to miss one week…boy oh boy, I sure do get behind!

I'm trying to learn how to balance the blogging, blogreading, work, family, artwork orders…and esp my "God and me" time!

Thanks again!
Blessings & Aloha!

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27 Apryl August 4, 2009 at 9:06 am

Thanks so much for doing this series – I am new to blogging and I hope your posts will help me to get off to a good start!

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28 Chic Mama August 4, 2009 at 9:06 am

Another great post! I look forward to your upcoming tools and the ideas you have to bring us in the future!

Praying for you and your family!

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29 Gina @ The Shabby Chic Cottage August 4, 2009 at 8:44 am

Great tips! I whole heartedly agree that paying attention to your core readers is what makes you gain more core readers. I try to comment on 25 or so blogs a day, so that others will know that I am not only making my own content but appreciating theirs as well. Thanks for the great tips!

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30 Carrie August 4, 2009 at 8:41 am

good info, thanks for giving us all these tips. in fact, i already DID mention you in my encouragement blog, so you're welcome. :) looking forward to more tips and link-ups!

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31 Marg August 4, 2009 at 8:38 am

This is a great post. Especially like the idea of responding to the comments you get. I try to do that as much as possible. Also like the idea of mentioning readers in your blogs. Good idea.

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